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Learn More: How’s Your Front Line?

by Dina on March 8, 2010

I came across this terrific post over at the Oahu Wedding Professional association site, which bills itself as ‘ fun, informative, and slightly irreverent’.  So true.  I really enjoy reading their blog.  The post asked a pretty important question that you might not have considered, especially if you’re a solopreneur wedding planner or a small team:

How’s my front line?

Your front line is your face to the world.  Whether it’s your desk person at your floral shop or the second shooter for your photography studio, these folks represent you and your business.  They are the ones making the first impression.  So, it’s important they put your best foot forward.

Here’s what I wrote in response to Oahu’s blog post:

Really good article and I’d like to add one thought. Before submitting your frontline to what amounts to a pop quiz, be sure you were clear about your expectations for that role first.

Does your receptionist know how you want your clients greeted in person and on the phone and why? Have you, as an employer, shared how you expect common situations (i.e. you’re running late or out of the office or sick) to be handled?  Maybe.  Maybe not.

My experience as a communication strategist is that most people assume the person doing the role will know what to do or say,especially if its an administrative one. Just answer the phone- with no real direction or discussion until there’s a problem. It’s hard to stay motivated and do your best as an employee when you don’t know what your boss expects.

Setting expectations doesn’t have to be complicated or fussy. A simple sentence like this one does the trick.

‘When you answer the phone, please say Positively Wed- specialized training for wedding professionals in communications and leadership skills’. That way, people know quickly they reached the right number and what we do .’

Explanation and expectation in one neat bundle! Maybe I’ll do a post or two on managing help, which can be awkward when you’re a solopreneur or small team. I hope you don’t mind me throwing in my 2 cents. Yours is one of the very best sites for wedding professionals and I want to support that.

Couple more thoughts about your front line.

Use your front line to extend your reach to touch brides. You can’t be everywhere (unless you’ve discovered the secret of human cloning).  But you can get your message out to more brides and wedding professionals by educating your front line about what’s unique about your business.

One of my former law firm clients did this so effectively.  Their administrative assistant was a very friendly, approachable young woman who made potential clients feel immediately comfortable.  Which is a feat since most people panic when calling a lawyer.  She was incredibly well-versed in the specialties of each of the lawyers and the types of cases they handled.   While she didn’t actually assign cases, she could help clients get a feel for the firm’s personality and who might work best for their needs.  She so increased their revenues because a ) her helpfulness demonstrated their commitment & landed the clients; and b) her attention and care made current clients feel like VIPs (who happily paid their bills).  What would it mean to your wedding business if your front line folks did that for you?

Everything is your front line. In this Internet age, what you write, how you respond on Twitter, possibly what you read is available for your clients to discover.  (LinkedIn shows when you’ve read someone’s profile)   That absolutely applies to your website and online social media profiles.

I can’t tell you how disappointing it is to read a great comment in one of the forums then click through to discover a website that is unattractive or poorly updated.  It breaks the spell and calls that person’s competence into question.  And, I’m not talking a typo or two (although it’s good to avoid those).  I’m talking no updating for months.

Sorry, but too busy is not an excuse.  Because if you’re too busy to maintain your OWN website, how can a bride trust you to be at the cutting edge of trends and such when you assist with her wedding?   There’s a wealth of affordable help out there.  (Let me know and I’ll point you to some tech or social media resources)

I’m thinking about doing a call on delegation to assistants, interns, contractors or employees.  Anybody up for that?  (BTW, my free March call on 3/24 is all about how to play nice in groups. First 20 people to register will receive a discount coupon for the audio/workbook bundle!)

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I’m a problem-solving coach, right.  That means I want to help you (and me) tackle the day to day stuff so we can really transcend and take our lives and wedding companies  to the next level.  Whatever that is.  So when I came across this absolutely fab list of questions ( courtesy of  Elizabeth PW’s newsletter), I HAD to pass it on.

Sharing the Good Stuff

The list is actually called ‘101+1 Small Business Marketing Questions for People who don’t Speak Marketing‘.  (what a mouthful)  Naomi Dunford, that sassy blogger who writes IttyBiz, generated a list of not-your-usual marketing questions.   These witty questions actually make it fun to think about creating a marketing plan for your wedding business.  Naomi covers the basics like what’s your niche, how are you different and what’s your value add, but in a more relaxed way.

I don’t know about you, but sometimes I read these articles that ask me to ‘differentiate my business from competitors’ and think, really?  I’m not a multi-national conglomerate that has a gazillion competitors and thinks in formulas.  It just seems old and formal.   Like your father’s marketing plan.  Not my style.

On the other hand, I got an enormous kick out of considering how I was better than other bozos, one of the questions.  (Answer: Since I’m not offended to think of myself as a bozo, my humility is in place and makes me a more compassionate teacher.  I don’t lecture; I share  because I don’t have all the answers.  You have some, too.)  It was irreverent, fun yet very practical.  Something that feels more like me.  I really think you’re going like this.

Makes Marketing Fun

Naomi’s questions are real yet playful.  I love how she handles the sticky bit about getting testimonials.  We all know we need them, but getting them consistently is another matter.  Naomi simply asks you to consider:

What nice stuff might other people say about me if only I asked them to say it? (Hint: You’ll get more testimonials if you ask for them.)

What a GREAT question that is.  Why?  It’s an excellent example of how useful it can be to properly frame a question.  You’ve read the question: how can I get more testimonials? a million times, right.  Me, too.  And, frankly, it’s a little intimidating.  It feels like you gotta go out and hunt some down!

This question is quite the opposite.  It invites you to remember something nice then puts those good feelings to work in a constructive way.  You’re not cornering folks, instead you’re asking if they notice the same positive qualities others did.  When I read that question I got an immediate ego boost  thinking about the nice stuff you readers have said about Positively Wed.  Very inspiring.   Go on, read it to yourself.  I bet you  get a smile thinking about the nice compliment you got last week!

Learning how to properly ask questions, meaning to ask in  a way that gets  positive results, is a skill every wedding professional must know.  Really, essential for giving your bride the very best wedding.  (And, it makes getting a deal  a snap!) We are definitely going to talk more about.  In fact, the introduction call will be part of Season Two of Brideability, which is coming soon.

Anyway, take a look at this extraordinary list.  Better yet- bookmark or print it out.  I’m going to.  And, if you’re not reading marketing blogs, do try IttyBiz

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