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Want advice on having a more peaceful wedding business?

Satisfying the needs of your brides  while voicing for your own opinions is a tricky balance.

Dealing with the personalities and works styles of other wedding vendors and colleagues can get messy especially when being polite collides with business.  You want to be calm, polite and effective, but how do you do that when all heck is breaking loose?

I can help you. I teach wedding professionals like you  communication, conflict management and leadership skills so you can speak with grace, power and confidence. It’s possible to be calm and totally in control while creating the wedding your bride dreams of.

You cater to brides, but who’s helping you, Wedding Planner, Celebrant, Florist, Vendor, Caterer, Photographer?

Running your own business is incredibly fun- until it’s not.  I know over the last 18 years of my corporate consulting practice there were moments when I felt doubtful, defeated, bullied and downright scared out of my wits.

I second-guessed myself.  I over-reacted.  And, I accommodated way too much to keep clients that I knew weren’t right for me in the first place. There were so many competing opinions- clients and colleagues-  and so little advice or support around, I’d just throw up my hands and punt.  And, I’m a conflict expert!  If you’ve ever wondered, Wouldn’t just be easier to go back to working for someone else? you know exactly how I felt.

But, I couldn’t just quit my business.   I was a new divorcee with two small kids to feed so I had to make my business work better for me. So, I figured out a way to run it that made me and my clients happier.  My business blossomed.  And, so did I.  So, I’m here to share with you what I learned about:

  • Grace- otherwise known as compassion and how important it is to running a business that feels caring and respectful to you, your couples and the friends and colleague you work with.
  • Power- simply defined as the ‘ability to get things done’, understanding how to use your personal power so you can relax and do more with less stress
  • Confidence- knowing how to handle any situation in a meaningful, thoughtful, collaborative way is absolutely a superpower you can use for good

Working together, you’ll master a communication system that allows you to talk in a way that people can hear, understand and respect.   It’s not magic. It’s all about getting to know yourself and your business and having the skills to communicate effectively, compassionately and collaboratively.  Then, you can fall back in love with your wedding business.  How?

  • Brideability Summits free teleclasses to enhance your Brideability (the ability to influence your others positively yet firmly)
  • Knowledge Bundles Audio +Workbook duos that put a whole lot of useful info right at your fingertips
  • Virtual conferences on the latest business and marketing practices   Social media, online marketing, business planning from an emotional perspective
  • Live events Skill-building Workshops and Practicuums because practice makes improvement

Of course, I can’t promise you every day will be like a box of chocolates. But I can promise you more confidence and peace of mind – and  tools that will help you deepen your relationships at work and at home. I invite you to look around Positively Wed and get acquainted.  Check out our store and see which upcoming  Brideability Summit is right for you.

Warmly,

Dina



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Dana GreysonNo Gravatar September 3, 2009 at 12:29 am

Brilliant concept! I will keep it in mind for folks headed down that path and I know anything Dina does, she does really well.

Nancy MiltonNo Gravatar September 4, 2009 at 5:36 pm

Awesome idea, Dina! I love your site and the work you’re doing. There is so much emphasis on weddings, brides, etc. on TV, etc. There is a great need for your fantastic services.

Gloria DawkinsNo Gravatar September 10, 2009 at 8:52 pm

I love your site! There is such a need for this type of service. I will be only too happy to recommend you

Pat AmbrosiusNo Gravatar October 19, 2009 at 10:08 am

Hi Dina! So glad to see you up and running. You have so much to offer brides and professionals alike. I’m happy you’re here to consult. The very best of luck!

Pamela DavisNo Gravatar October 22, 2009 at 4:31 am

What you offer is so great. Planning a wedding can be all consuming and stressful, so easy to become overwhelmed. As a vender we also need to understand how to effectively deal with and cater to our customers.

MonicaNo Gravatar November 21, 2009 at 8:08 am

Hello there!
I have to tell you, we were supposed to get married in May and are now getting married in December! Pretty stressful! Nice to have your insights!

Curtis CopelandNo Gravatar January 13, 2010 at 11:30 am

Great concept for helping brides with their wedding planning and the associated chaos!

Curtis

Wedding Photography Miami

Michele EddinsNo Gravatar January 18, 2010 at 12:17 pm

I would love to learn more about Twitter. I got your email. there was a problem with replying to it when I clicked on your link. I don’t have the number to call. This will be on the 21st at 7p.m.?
Thanks,
Michele Eddins
Floral Compliments
315-895-0775

Paul PannoneNo Gravatar January 30, 2010 at 5:06 pm

We call Dina our STRESS FREE lady on our #BlackTieFridayFollow bit on Twitter. Dina’s ease and distinction is getting her known in all the right wedding circles.

I look forward to working with her on more and more projects; she represents the wave of the future in wedding planning and promotions– done with care, ease and elegance.

Swing it Dina!

Paul Pannone

Rich PizzutiNo Gravatar February 6, 2010 at 10:13 am

Love your blog and the work you do as a wedding professional. You are a tremendous and valuable resource to your brides and the industry as a whole. Would love to network with you in the future!

-Rich Pizzuti

Terrilynn CookNo Gravatar February 15, 2010 at 2:53 pm

Hi Dina! I actually read your post regarding a ‘Fake Planner’. I truly appreciate your response. As a newbie it is very difficult to get the guidance that you need for the OJT. I truly appreciate your candid blogs, webinars and responses. It allows me to learn through honest communication. To make a long story short-Thank you!

Camille MendezNo Gravatar June 16, 2010 at 9:53 pm

Great insight and information! I am so glad to have come across your site. While most times I dont encounter these types of issues due to my specific niche within the wedding realm, it’s great to have the tools just in case :)
Thank you.

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