So long, not goodbye

by Dina on March 3, 2012

Hi  It’s me, Dina.  You know, Positively Wed.  It’s been a while since we spoke. Inside my head I hear a little voice doing a Ricky Ricardo imitation saying, Dina, you got some splain’ to do! 

Good and Getting Better

What happened to the Positively Wed blog and newsletter?  The short answer- life.

I’m still very much committed to your growth and satisfaction as a business person and to run
the wedding business you dreamed of.  That’s hasn’t changed.  The way I plan to do that has changed. That’s because I’m living the life and creating the business I always dreamed of right now. And, I want that sense of joy and excitement for you, too.

A Dream Delayed

Ever since I was a teenager I’ve wanted to live in California.  All those commercials with Arnold  beckoning spoke directly to my heart.  Last year I fulfilled my 30 year old dream, which was long delayed but just couldn’t be denied. I moved across country from Boston, my home for 25 years, to relocate in Oakland, CA.  Finally, I’m a Cali girl.

That heart-based decision has been amazing.  I’m happier than I have been in years.  It’s a blessing that really opened me up to seeing lots of things a new way, including my business.  

I decided to expand my tribe to include all women entrepreneurs and to talk about my personal passion:  How to be powerful and generous.  In your business.  In your life.

Positively Wed invites you to Speak Up

So, Positively Wed is transforming  from good to great- into Speak Up Powerfully.   My aim is to teach you how to take the ass out of being assertive and be a strong, powerful woman entrepreneur.

What does that mean?  You know how to stand up for yourself.  You can get what you want and need without being a pushy bitch or a pushover.   It’s definitely doable when you know the skills and mindset.  I’ve been there and I want to share my simple secrets with you.   

Why? I’m tired of wimpy businesswomen who wring their hands wondering should I, would I dare?  You are a powerhouse for your children and family. You are an innovative  entrepreneur.  

Isn’t it time to speak up for yourself and your business, too?  Wouldn’t life be better if you could say what matters to you in a way that others can hear well and take action?  Of course it would!

Agree? You are specially invited to join my Speak up Revolution, where I’ll be teaching and talking about being powerful, generous and profitable through online course work and interviews.  First up- I’m taking the mystery out of setting and getting your best price.

Next step for you- sign up for  Speak UP Revolution, my new monthly ezine now. 

Let Yourself Price What You Deserve!

Get your FREE mini-course on asking for and getting more when you sign up for Speak up Revolution, a monthly ezine

 

 

Looking forward to seeing on the other side.

Be Heard and Prosper!

Warmly, Dina

Dina Eisenberg
Power Maven
SpeakupPowerfully.com

 

 

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Planning to dominate in 2012

by Dina on December 12, 2011

I’m not like  most business gurus.  You know that by now.  I think differently.  Feeling happy and confident in your business is the success measure that I treasure. It’s equally as important as being profitable.

The whole ‘end of the year planning’ thing is stressful for many of us solo entrepreneurs.  We have to look back and then look ahead to the future. Awkward.

Read too many plan for 2012 articles and  you could easily come away feeling sad about what happened (or didn’t) this year, overwhelmed by what needs to be done and fearful of how to effectively change things for next year. Brutal.

I totally sympathize.  After all, I run a small business, too.  And, I’m still haunted by all those hours wasted in planning during my corporate life.  The process stinks.  However- planning is absolutely necessary if you’d like to succeed.

Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.   Period.

Make a plan

I walk my talk, as the saying goes. I’m doing my 2012 planning now.  So, I started thinking about reframing the idea of business planning from something that, frankly, ties my stomach in knots to something that feels simple &  hopeful to me.

Because there is copious amounts of information about business planning already available I’m not going to talk about how to do that.  You just have to google and read articles until you find one that resonates with you.

I read and liked  this post by Syndi Craig-Hart which offered some very specific action steps to help you set goals for next year.

Syndi lists 3 steps for creating a strategic marketing plan, otherwise known as your big picture:

  • Evaluate last year.  Ok, this is tough, especially if you didn’t write your goals down or had too many or they changed as the year progressed.  I say evaluate from a more friendly perspective.  Remember the childhood game where someone hides an item and you find it while people yell directions like colder, warm, piping hot?   How about we use that scale?    Who doesn’t want to be warmer?  LOL  Personally, I’d say that my 2011 started off a little chilly but I got lots warmer towards goal of finding the right knowledge topics to serve you.

Has your year been cold, warm, getting hot, piping hot in 2011?

  • Fill in gaps.  That doesn’t mean do every new marketing gimmick that comes along.  It means pick a couple of marketing ideas, make sure they’re connected and support each other (i.e. like social media and blogging support each other), then do them consistently.  My guess is that you’re probably doing a little online and a little offline to reach your market.  That’s great because you need both channels.  When one isn’t working, the other one will be.  Use a calendar to schedule in your daily tasks.  (Successful entrepreneurs with 6 figure businesses routinely spend up to 2 hours a day increasing exposure and awareness. You could start with 30 minutes.)

Which of your daily marketing tasks makes you happiest?

  • Write down your plan with help.  This is the yucky part.  Something cruel happens to great ideas once they go from my brain to paper.  So, it’s useful to have someone help you capture your plan on paper and turn it into a step-by-step action bible.  Studies suggest that writing down goals makes you 80% more likely to achieve them.  Cool, huh?  Luckily, there’s a wealth of great wedding professionals to help you. Check out awesome wedding marketing folks like Natalie Bradley, Kathy DalPra, Christine Dyer or Stephanie and Jeff Padovani.   Want a different planning approach to creating a money map- try Syndi.

Who is gonna help you dominate in 2012?

Comment below to answer one or all of these questions. ;)

 

 

 

 

 

 

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You’re my gift

December 5, 2011

I’m rebellious.  I love to zig when everyone else zags.  That’s why I’m sending out my Thanksgiving thanks now in December. Really, you’re my gift this and every holiday season.  I should take every opportunity to tell you how much I appreciate you for being part of my tribe. You’re the reason I’m excited to [...]

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Say you get hit by a piano, pt 2

November 28, 2011

UPDATE: It’s almost like the Universe paged her because right after I completed last week’s post, I heard from Carla. An email popped into my inbox that read, ‘I’m back’. Long story short, I got to put all the communication and conflict skills and mindsets I teach into practice. Her child fell ill, which caused [...]

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Say you get hit by a piano, pt 1?

November 21, 2011

This is a true story.  I wish it wasn’t.  But it’s a cautionary lesson for me as a purchaser and as an entrepreneur that can help you, too. Hiring Help After revising my course I wanted to have it looking good.  So I searched for a VA who could do ebook layouts.  I interviewed Carla [...]

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Hasta Luego!

November 14, 2011

As you read this I’m sitting on a beautiful Mexican beach contemplating the joys of being 50!  Yep, we’re chilling at the gorgeous Hotel Cinco Sentidos, cliff-side with an amazing bay view.   When I booked this trip a year ago, I had know idea we’d be living in California.   Or, in a new house.  [...]

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Tips for Planning Your BFFs Wedding!

October 24, 2011

You’re an amazingly creative wedding professional.  So when your best friend (close cousin, college roomie) asks you to plan her perfect wedding day you say yes!  You’re excited to plan the event of the century that you’ve talked about so many times.  It’s gonna be great.  Right? Maybe… As exciting as it can is to [...]

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What’s up with Dina?

October 17, 2011

Today is my two month anniversary of becoming a California girl! Woo hoo! I hella heart Oakland. You probably know about our move to Oakland- my life long dream and smartest thing I ever did.  The weather and lifestyle are wonderful. Every day  I wake up and see the palm trees then grin and say [...]

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Free Webinar tonight!

October 10, 2011

Yep, it’s true. The wonderful folks of the EPIC Summit invited yours truly do present the kick-out webinar tonight at 5 pm CT/ 8 pm ET. I’m talking about a pretty common topic- entrepreneurship- from a very different perspective. My question to you is: you’re running a business, yes, but are you truly an entrepreneur? [...]

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Alltop selects PositivelyWed!

September 23, 2011

It’s like winning an Oscar, except it doesn’t ruin your career.  I’m talking about being named to the Alltop list.  Guy Kawasaki, guru of all things startup, pulls together the cream of the crop of online content on his site, Alltop. Alltop is fun.  Great to browse, there are a ton of very high quality [...]

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